![]() Spend some quality time with yourself like doing yoga, exercise or meditation.įree your mind from any negativities you have.ĭo not allow excessive self-criticism to ruin your life. So accept yourself as who you are and what you are now. You are an individual with unique skills that no one else has. Remember, you can share unconditional love with others only when you give unconditional love to yourself.įorget the instances where you could not perform up to your standards or failed to fulfill certain tasks. ![]() We pay attention to others but forget to engage in self-care regularly. How to love yourself unconditionally?Īs much as you love others, it is important to love yourself unconditionally. Even if the other person is wrong in your eyes, forgive them to save peace in your heart. When you hold on to the memory of a mistake, your mind is not at peace. However, unconditional love is not a contract where you can sue the other party for not fulfilling the terms of the contract.Īlways forgive others for mistakes they make. The moment they do mistakes or do something we cannot accept, the status of our relationship changes. Most of the time we love someone as long as they are in our good books. Learning to forgive easily is one of the best ways to spread unconditional love. Therefore, train your mind to be sensitive and soft gradually. Likewise, others around you always expect love and respect from you. Ask yourself “what if someone talks to me with harsh words? or what if someone ill-treats me?” Definitely, you would not like to be subjected to any negative conduct from others. Take a moment to reflect on your life and the people around you. We do not think about how our decisions or words affect ourselves and others. Our lives are so busy and most of the time, we go on auto-pilot mode. Your positive thinking can make a huge difference in the way you treat yourself as well as others. Even though I live in a different part of the world now, I hope the planted trees will remain through generations benefiting the environment. Though I had to spend a few hours during my weekend, the happiness gained from planting trees was huge. I used to volunteer with Treepeople in California, planting trees in different places like Angeles National Forest. ![]() Thus, try to engage in benevolent acts that create the goodness of others. No one would like to receive ill-treatment from others. There is a saying “treat others the way you want to be treated.” This is an evergreen idea. Instead, speak soft and kind words that fulfil the other person’s heart with happiness. Also do not engage in frivolous talks that waste your time as well as the time of the others. Avoid harsh words that might hurt others. Therefore, be mindful to treat others with kind words. It has the ability to maintain a healthy relationship or spoil it. ![]() Unconditional love is difficult to cultivate because we have always used to love others with strings attached. You can share unconditional love through kind words, acts and thoughts. When your love acquaintances with defilements, you will not be able to see beyond and above. Unconditional love is pure and powerful because it is not tainted with any kind of defilement. Why unconditional love is pure and powerful? In short, you do not have to be in presence all the time to share unconditional love with others. You can always stay apart while sharing unconditional love with that person. You can always set boundaries while loving the other person unconditionally.įor example, if you are in a toxic relationship, you do not have to put up with the other person in the name of love. To love someone unconditionally does not mean tolerating any unacceptable words or behavior that will risk your life or the life of others. Some may have not understood the idea of unconditional love in its true sense.
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